When children are young they depend fully on us, for them adults are a source of authority to go to in times of need. This is the reason why a child can be an accuser.
Being an accuser at these ages is completely normal, with the purpose of "earning points" to parents, family members or teachers, the accusing child warns and accuses before a danger, before a conflict with a friend, etc.
But the case that we know most of the parents are the accusations between brothers, "has laughed at me", "has hit me", "is bothering me" and a long etcetera that ends up convincing us of how accused the child is .
Above all, parents should analyze the reasons for the accusations made by the child. When it comes to accusations like the ones we have mentioned before, of little importance, it is necessary that we intervene and that we recognize the problem that it poses, but subtly. For example, an appropriate question before “my brother is bothering me"Would be," what could you do to stop your brother from bothering you? " In this way a stimulus is produced in the child so that it is he who seeks a possible solution.
Teaching the child when he should be accused is a task that requires time and great gifts of imagination to explain different situations, for example through stories, in this way the child will understand when he should or should not notify his parents about any situation, but We should not use the child as if it were a small spy.
All situations where there is some type of violence are those that the child must report so that no major problems arise between siblings. Many are the responsibilities of parents so that children develop in every way properly.
